My mother’s day do-over!

Since Mother’s Day was spent house hunting/traveling, I officially declared MY Mother’s Day would be this weekend. 🙂 So our day started with a trip to Costco, Owen’s face-painting at the farmer’s market…and then since it was a GORGEOUS day, time spent outside using the deck/pool/yard/playset (we’re trying to use it as much as we can since we will have NONE of it at the new house)…

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We were playing music outside.
Owen: DJ Shuffle is in the house!
Us: Whaaaaa?!?!

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Owen hurt himself with that jump/landing, but felt a little better when I showed him the cool picture I got of him in mid air!

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While we were outside, Tom went and got the mail…and my mother’s day present (that I ordered for myself!) had arrived! I LOVE IT SOOOOO MUCH! (It’s an 11×14 wrapped canvas.)

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Then Tom grilled super yummy BBQ chicken (which Owen tried and liked!) and I made a huge batch of our favorite tomato and basil bruschetta and we ate on the deck!

And even though I got these from Owen awhile back (done at school), I forgot to post them, so there’s no better time or place than right now!

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I love his answers! And he didn’t do too badly…though I can’t believe he said salad instead of any other number of things! 🙂

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So overall I had a GREAT mother’s day do-over!

Owen’s first face-painting!

We stopped at the farmers market on the way home from a Costco run…and they had face painting! Owen had never had it done, and I thought I might be able to entice him with a superhero…and it worked!!

The before:

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He had a handful to choose from. Can you tell who he picked?

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Katie and daddy were waiting:

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Sponging on some red…

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Painting some lines…

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The final product—he was suddenly shy and wouldn’t look at me and wanted to go to the car. Oh well.

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But once we got to the car, he had turned into Spider-Man and he was ALL SMILES!

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And even throwing webs!

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When we got home, he was a super big help unloading the car, and then I heard “Mama take a picture!” Yep, he had found his matching Spider-Man Lego head! 🙂

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Owenisms 44

I had asked him what lunch was. I’m guessing a tortilla wrap.
Owen: I like the chicken. But outside the tortilla. It tastes like dinosaur. Or maybe chicken.

Driving somewhere with Tom:
Owen: Look! Slow turtles!
Tom was confused until he realized he meant one of these:

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I handed Owen an old tattered B.
Owen: Maybe when gramma comes again she can fix it with her fixing machine.

He says stuff like this all the time:
Remember? Last week? For Christmas a long time ago? OR Remember? Last year? When I was four last time ago?

Me: What did you have for lunch today?
Owen: Hard chicken.
Me: Hard chicken?! What’s that?
Owen: It kinda tastes like cardboard.

At breakfast:
Excuse me? Last night? My dreams were a pretty little bit good.

Katie loves being in a bed!

This is our bed when we got back to the hotel! She cuddles up tight next to Owen and says “Sleepy!”

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Then this is Owen trying to go to sleep…with Katie still going a mile a minute rightnexttohim.

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Either she was extra tired tonight or she was finally getting used to the bed…but she was out pretty quickly (yay!). She still did cry out a few times during the night but it wasn’t bad. In the morning we looked over to see Owen practically hanging off the bed with Katie snuggled right up next to him. He said she touched him all night long. 🙂

A good report, a birthday, and a messy girl.

Both kids got a good report from our friends…and they told us we were right—they were quite easy and Owen was really polite. Yep, that’s Owen. 🙂 Tim only had one moment right after we put the kids in the car and left—he said Owen started crying saying he wanted his mommy. Tim assured him we’d be back in a few hours and that he was going to see his friends—and then asked if he wanted to watch a movie and the tears dried up immediately! 🙂

We went back to their house (after our house stuff was finished) to hang out and celebrate Tim’s birthday. And the boys took their usual photo (there’s a long story behind it):

Whose birthday is it? THIS GUY!

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Here’s their last photo from 2005:

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They had other friends with kids over so there were like 13 kids total and Owen was in heaven. He enjoyed talking to the 8yo girl about Star Wars! I missed getting a picture of Katie IN the sand table but she had fun on the swing:

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And it had rained and there was some wet mulch and mud…so she was A MESS! So much so that she got a quick bath before we left (and her clothes got sprayed with stain stuff)!

And it was another late night for them—we headed home at 8:30!

House Hunting Day 3—Success!

We met our friends to transfer the kids and Owen was excited to go play with his new friends.

We met our agent at the first house and actually really liked it. It was quite similar to the Band-Aid house:

  • Four bedrooms…but an unfinished basement.
  • More hardwood floors…but not quite as open a floor plan.
  • A deck…but no fence possible.
  • Kitty corner from a playground…but everything felt a bit crowded.

But $200 cheaper a month. 😐

So it was back to the Band-Aid house to talk with the owner, who had requested to meet us. He wasn’t thrilled with the July 1 start date but he liked the 3-year lease…so apparently he wanted to see if he liked us…?!?!

Amazingly he is willing to put up a fence and some ceiling fans. It’s only three bedrooms but it’s got a HUGE finished basement with a full bath so will be great for (long-term!) guests! The one small bad/strange thing [that we didn’t realize in ANY of our searching thus far] is that bedrooms here typically have no overhead lights…so we have to buy lamps again.

So it was a very tough decision. I honestly thought we’d be good in either house, but my gut said the Band-Aid house. Tom was in the same boat…but I think the agreement to put up a fence sealed the deal, so we filled out the app, shook on it, then went to get certified checks…and breathe a sigh of relief. And panic a little because it’s a bit over our budget. But we’ll make it work because we have to.

Of course then we started thinking about things…and looked at the listing again. It says 4BR but we don’t remember four bedrooms—in fact, both of us were sure it was three. But if it’s the same as the first house, then it has four (because I remember thinking the basement bedroom made five). And we can use our own washer and dryer—but we’re pretty sure it’s a gas hookup so we may need to ask to have an outlet installed (I’m not buying a gas dryer AGAIN—we did that in Troy and sold it when we moved back here). And where are we going to put our deck set with no deck?! I guess it will be a party table in the basement.

So…exciting and still terrifying at the same time!

So here’s the Band-Aid house—the houses are very close together but at least it’s a house and not a townhouse!

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You can just see the corner of the kitchen (hardwoods), then the main living area with the fireplace, and the carpeted (?!) dining room (which will likely be a play room):

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The kitchen—with Corian counters and the gas stove on the island. He calls the appliances upgraded but they’re pretty basic (though I guess the fridge is a side-by-side with a water dispenser). We’re debating bringing our awesome stainless fridge and putting this one in the garage (then buying a cheap stainless one for our house in Jacksonville).

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Cool windows in the stairwell:

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The huge master bedroom:

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And the closets are BEFORE the bathroom like I wanted—not THROUGH the bathroom like we have now. 🙂 It has a soaking tub (not jetted like we have now) but we never used it anyway so no biggie.

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And the kids’ bath has two sinks like I wanted!

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There’s not much of a back yard…but at least there’s some nice grass!

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So we’re just waiting on the app and credit check to be run Monday morning so they can send us the lease to sign!

Visiting with old friends

Friends of ours live in Fairfax so we went to visit and have dinner with their family. (Tim was in the Marines with Tom back in the day.) They had also offered to watch the kids if we needed them to, so we were letting the kids get to know them. 🙂

Of course Owen immediately got along with them all (ages 7, 5, and 2) and had a blast on their playset. We had also brought Maggie and she was having fun playing with their lab!

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The kids were way off their sleep schedule but both did well—they were both wide awake as we drove home at 8:30!

House Hunting Day 2

Today’s fun thing? We found an awesome house—the first one we looked at [again!]. Great, we thought, it JUST came on the market, we’ll get our app in and be done. Except no, they’re not looking at apps until MONDAY. So of course by then they’ll have a mountain of them to sift through and to get ours to stand out we’d need to offer more rent. It was already over our budget so adding more just wasn’t realistic. [Sidenote: That really pisses me off. You put it on the market so take my app and be done—or raise the listed rent price to start. None of this other BS.]

So we kept looking. Everything we saw was simply okay—nothing that we loved. There was either no basement or what they called a basement wasn’t really (one was literally a 6×10 room with a fireplace right inside the front door?!); fenced patios with no grass or doors to the patio/grassy area were on the lowest level (doable but not convenient at all for letting Maggie out); only three bedrooms with no good place for guests or an office; and lots of townhouses with absolute crap for parking.

There were a few we surely could have made work, but we still had more on our list so we kept going.

Then we saw one that was almost identical to the very first one we wanted—it was the same floor plan but with less hardwood/more carpet and no bedroom in the basement. But we still really liked it so it became our top choice. It had been on the market awhile so we were pretty confident we didn’t have to act immediately so we kept looking. But we referred to it as the Band-Aid house because there were little cosmetic issues throughout (stains on carpet, no fence, no ceiling fans, etc.) but nothing serious. 🙂

We took a mid-afternoon break to get lunch and let Katie take a nap while our agent had another appointment.

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Afterwards, it was back to work. She drove by a few and said the parking was horrible so we were able to cross them off without even looking at them. A few others didn’t even have any grass patches so those were immediately out. And another one was doable but not great. And others just felt too small. One was in a perfect spot—right across from a walking trail to the pool (maybe 100 yards away) along a grassy, wooded area—but of course the house wasn’t quite right.

We had time to wait at that one so walked around—and Owen actually held a caterpillar! I never thought I’d see the day he’d hold a bug! (Of course, Katie picked one up and immediately tried to squish it!)

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But we still had a few on our list we needed to check out before deciding on the Band-Aid house…so we knew we had another house hunting day ahead of us… But at least we had pretty much centered our search on the Lorton area—Alexandria was just too crowded with no parking. I’m sure some of the homes themselves were livable—but it’s very hard to give up space when that’s all you’ve ever known. And of course we had the open-floor-plan Band-Aid house in our memory.

What have we done?!

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We’re attempting to let Katie sleep with Owen on the fold out couch tonight. Heaven help us. (We figure why not make this hellish day complete?) She’s never slept in a bed before so of course we decide to try it for the first time in a strange hotel on a night when she’s had no nap and their sleep schedule is way off—bedtime is normally 7 and it’s after 9! She’s calmed a bit but is still playing and chattering…having a ball!

Katie’s first popsicle

A mommy group friend invited us over after school to play on their waterslide (that Owen LOVES). Katie enjoyed it, too, along with the swingset and the trampoline.

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Owen also ate a Popsicle—almost. He ate about half of it then wanted to save it. He was a bit upset when I said it wasn’t possible (it was about 85°)!

A friend making Katie laugh with funny faces!

Our new temporary pool!

The kids love water so much that we broke down and got a cheapie $10 pool to use until we move. I had to help Katie in the first time, but she quickly figured it out for herself and she was in and out, in and out, in and out. 🙂

I asked Owen why he was sitting like this and he said “Because that’s how the kid on the box is sitting!” He even put the box up on the deck box so he could see it. 🙂

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Jumping in! Normally he lands on his knees—I don’t know how he doesn’t get hurt.

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Washing off her feet…but then liking standing in the bucket.

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Just like big brother did in the big pool! 🙂

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She took the chair into the pool and this is what happened when I told her no.

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One last cute picture before I took the chair away!

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