We’ve reached the stage where he CAN put his shoes on (I’ve seen him many times) but when it’s just me and him: “It’s no use! I can’t do it!” Complete with whining…and often stomping and always a grouch face. Drives. Me. Batty.
I ask if he whines at school. No.
Does anyone help him at school? No.
Then why do you whine at home and say you can’t do it? [Crickets.]
Tonight I was having him try on a new pair of shoes that were EASIER than his current shoes…and OMG THE WHINING. He barely even pretends to try before saying he can’t do it. So I told him I’d send them back because whiny kids don’t get new shoes. He immediately says “I’ll be good. I promise” (his new mantra when I threaten to take things away). Sure, until I ask him to try again 10 seconds later.
Sigh.