We have decided to start trying again…
Tom has been tested (before he left, actually) and he is fine.
I have been through all of the uncomfortable ultrasound and radiation tests (while he was gone—that was fun by myself) and long story short (no need to go into details about the not-fun procedures) I have a clean bill of reproductive health. The doc says there is no good reason I cannot get pregnant. (He is willing to put me on some “lite” fertility drugs if I choose, but we are waiting a few months just to see what happens.)
So he we go again. 
