http://blogs.babble.com/t…o-your-toddler/ [Link dead as of 6/9/2016.]
The list, condensed so you don’t have to click through all the pages (though the pages explain WHY you shouldn’t say those things):
- Stop crying.
- Hurry up.
- You’re so… [“Why are you so mean to Katie?” Or “How could you be such a klutz?”]
- Leave me alone!
- Don’t touch this!
- Why did you do that?
- Wait until mom/dad gets home.