A happy day AND a sad day…

The happy news? Boots went to a new home today. 😀
The sad news? Boots went to a new home today. :'(

As luck would have it, I was getting my hair cut last night and talking to my hairdresser about our zoo (she has her own zoo, and her husband just left December 29 for a year). I mentioned that we actually had one cat we’d like to find a new home for since our other cats were still terrorizing her after a year. She said “Oh! Kathy [our receptionist] is looking for a cat!”

So after my haircut, I talked to Kathy, showed her the pictures online, and she said she’d take her—and made plans to pick her up the following night (tonight). Of course, I was thrilled, because Boots really does need to be the only cat…but of course I was sad, because I love her and I’ve never had to give up an animal before. :'(

I got teary a few times, but managed to not cry… so here’s hoping she’s loving her new home.

When smells attack!

So we cleaned up the living room tonight, finally putting away all the Christmas boxes and whatnot, and I (re)plugged in one of those air freshener dohickeys. Well, I have to say I LOVE Febreze Noticables but there is one scent that Tom bought that I cannot stand. And it so happens that was the one I picked up and plugged in (damn, I thought I had thrown it out!) so now, my hand smells like that scent that I hate. And it’s extremely overpowering. And the smell will NOT go away. I’ve washed my hands a bunch of times, put lotion on, and even went so far as to “rinse” my hands in nail polish remover…yet the smell remains. It is so horrible and overpowering that I now have a raging headache.

Just when I feel horrible about myself…

something generally happens to make me feel better.

I’ve been a little depressed lately because I’ve gained back most of the weight I lost three years ago… (Tom loves me REGARDLESS, so I have nothing to worry about in that aspect.) But needless to say, getting dressed is no longer fun and it’s a pain to go out because I literally have like three casual non-work outfits that fit/look halfway decent.

So today we had to go out spur of the moment and nothing I liked was clean so I was not feeling comfortable and I was being Mrs. Crankypants… I had just made a comment about it when we walked by someone that made me feel beautiful, skinny, and completely comfortable: some nasty freak of a woman who had to weigh at least 400# and was wearing a spaghetti-strap silk tank top with no bra that was S-T-R-E-T-C-H-E-D to it’s utmost limit, along with some pants that looked about two sizes too small. 88| I wanted to ask her if I could shop with her the rest of the day so I could feel better about myself.

I walked out of the store with my head held high.

All that said, I know that “inner beauty” is better than “outer beauty” and my self-esteem shouldn’t be based on comparisons with other people. However, when I see someone in public who is dressed EXTREMELY inappropriately, I think “At least I have enough self-respect not to go out in public like that.”

Regardless, the “diet” is starting soon, I promise.

Better Rice-A-Roni

So last night we were making dinner and I was going to make plain rice. I already had the 1 cup of rice in the pan when I thought “You know, I should really use one of the 10 Rice-A-Roni boxes we just bought…” so thought I would just wing it and combine the two, and just added a bit more butter to saute the rice/vermicelli bits in, and then just added an extra cup of water. And you know what? It was perfect!!! Regular Rice-A-Roni is always too salty and there never seems to be enough. But, with the addition of the extra rice and water, it was really yummy! Perfectly seasoned, plus you got a lot more!! I love it when spur of the moment things like that actually turn out!

You don’t even have to pay me, just let me…

You don’t even have to pay me, just let me legally stop and write tickets to stupid drivers! I have been saying this for years—practically since I started driving.

I don’t want to be a cop by any stretch of the imagination, but please please PLEASE just give me the ability to pull over stupid drivers and ticket them for the things they do. I would get SUCH job satisfaction for that!!

Why does this come up this morning? Well, some idiot in my neighborhood totally blew his stop sign, causing me to slam on the brakes to miss him (god forbid he have to wait two seconds until I’m past him to pull out behind me)—then not 200 yards later, heading out of the subdivision, he blew that stop sign as well! (Now, I’m all about the rolling stop when no one is around and it’s completely dead—but he didn’t even attempt a rolling stop!)

So not a way to start my work week.>:(

Some people…and some people’s kids.

I just don’t understand crappy parenting.

We just had a family come in the office with a small child—say, four years old. She was bothering the parents/agent, so we offered to take her back into the lunchroom where we turned on the TV so she could watch cartoons…and honestly didn’t think anything of it. Then we started to hear the trash can open and close. And open and close. Upon going back there, we discovered she was opening sugar packets and dumping them on the floor!! 88| She also helped herself to the bag of chip-clipped chips that were on the table, finishing the bag! 88| Another agent went back there and STERNLY told her to STOP with the sugar packets—and I think it was after that she moved to the chips.

What the hell? I mean, obviously the parents can’t know what she’s doing, but I’d hope that my kids would have the fear of God in them should they do anything wrong when out of my sight—and heaven help them if I found out they were acting that way.

So then the issue becomes, do you say something to the parents or not? We let it slide, but I really REALLY wanted to say something like “Your daughter may have spoiled her dinner since she polished off a bag of our chips back there. Oh, and she wasted about 20 packets of sugar by dumping them on the floor.”

I’m just flabbergasted.

RRNYE!

I don’t even know where to start…so I will say that this past weekend had to be one of the best weekends of my life. Seriously. We both had so much fun it was crazy. (This morning wasn’t too fun…but at this point, I’m still recuperating…but it was well worth it.)

So, what happened this past weekend that was so great? RRNYE, that’s what!! And what exactly was RRNYE? A huge group of people I’ve “met” online that were all meeting in Raleigh for a big NYE bash (Rockin’ Raleigh New Year’s Eve)! People came from all across the country and we just had a complete blast!

To start, I was completely nervous about meeting everyone, and welcomed the chance to pick up someone at the airport, so I would have at least met one person in a calm setting! I recognized her immediately, and the meeting went well.

That said, walking into the bowling alley (the first meeting spot) was an entirely overwhelming (wait, OVERWHELMING) experience. Us three walked in, and immediately all heads turned toward us, then all I saw was a mass of people moving towards us in one big rush. There were introductions and hugs and I was trying to place names to faces and trying to remember to introduce Tom, as well.

At dinner that night (we broke off into groups and went to different places—we were dining on Italian), I was still feeling a bit overwhelmed, but it got easier. It took probably an hour or so before I finally started talking and being more myself. By the time the group lunch and trip to the fun park rolled around (mini golf, go karts, etc.) the next afternoon, we were having a great time and felt way more at ease! I even took a spin on the go-karts, which I haven’t done in probably 15 years!

By the big party, with more than a few drinks in me :)) it felt like I’d known everyone forever and we were having a blast! Everyone made me feel very welcome and I think Tom was surprised at how much fun he had with everyone. The food was great, I had a fun time being a bartender (with another girl who actually was a bartender in a past life), and we had a great White Elephant gift exchange, in which I ended up with a Christmas ornament (perfect!).

The funniest thing, I think, is how many people expressed their hesitance/reservations in meeting me. I’m not quite sure what they expected, but needless to say they were a bit unsure about me. But, apparently, from everything everyone told me (and what I heard from others), I fit right in and they needn’t have worried about me! Anyway, hearing that people’s worries were unfounded and that people actually liked me…well, that made me feel good, because of course I was sorta scared about the whole thing anyway.

The only bad thing was that we didn’t get to say goodbye to people! We sort of rushed out of the party because I wasn’t feeling well (too much to drink!) and honestly it was sort of a blur…and I was thinking we’d get to see them in the morning…but, alas, I was definitely NOT in any shape to go to the planned brunch, and Tom wasn’t much better.

Now, we can’t wait to go to more meets—we loved everyone and can’t wait to spend more time with them!

Our Office Christmas Dinner

Our Christmas dinner this year was at Port City Chop House—a premier steak house in neighboring Wilmington. I had actually been there once before, in 2004, for a Builder Appreciation dinner when Tom was deployed…and was eagerly anticipating returning with him. The food there is TO DIE FOR.

We started with a few bottles of wine and (I think) five appetizers, including two orders of Oysters Rockefeller, Baked Crab Dip, Sashimi Tuna, and a Crabmeat Cocktail. And more wine. And soups and salads (I had Fresh Mozzarella and Tomato). And more wine. I think everyone got some form of steak, and a few of us got Tide & Tundra, which included a Tristan lobster tail (I think the waiter said it was Australian), and it was the biggest lobster tail I have ever seen in my life!! I also got an Oscar accompaniment. And then we had more wine. And then four “desserts for two” including the Mile High Chocolate Suicide Cake, Colossal Carrot Cake, New York Style Cheesecake, and White Chocolate Créme Brulee. And more wine. 88| (At one point, I asked the waiter just how much wine they stocked, as we were on our [I think] fourth bottle of a particular Reisling and the waiter said they had one bottle left!)

Let’s just say the bill for our table of eight, with tip, was a hair over $800. We would go back by ourselves for dinner (chicken or pasta only) with no appetizers, drinks, or desserts!!

We had a great time, though—we exchanged our gifts and shared a lot of laughs. There are some pictures, too…but we won’t go there. Thankfully Jennie was our designated driver so the ride home was fairly uneventful (except when her husband gave Sue and John a bare moon doing 75 down the highway).

I hate going on vacation…

…because at work, the weeks leading up to my vacation completely suck. I am steadily working on all my to-dos through January 1, but of course that isn’t good enough. Suddenly, about 30 listings come out of the woodwork. They’ve been on our “coming soon” list for three months and I’ve been asking about them for the past month—but now that my vacation is one measly week away, it’s time to list ALL of our coming soon houses. WHAT THE HELL?

There is really no way I can get all the listing paperwork done PLUS enter all the listings in the MLS in one week. Well, maybe if I didn’t have anything else to do like answer the phone or work on my other to-dos. The stupid thing is that if I was going to be here, I’m guessing I wouldn’t have all those to do—I’d get a few here and there but nowhere near 30 in one week. And it’s not like we don’t have any inventory right now, so these would be our only listings. And it’s not like this is a busy time of year. And it’s not like this vacation was a surprise—they’ve known about it for two months now…

So, in addition to having to complete three week’s worth of activities over the next week, I will also have a month’s worth of listings to do in the same week. Someone shoot me.

Oh! And on top of all that, a 20-minute what-should-have-been-a-painless project turned into a FOUR-HOUR project. 88|

You know, I wonder what they would do if I ever had to be gone spur-of-the-moment for that long? I think they would survive just fine…so why the rush with all this work?

Should I get paid more for the IT work I do?

So as you all know, I just LOVE my job ( 😈 ). There are so many little issues that make me crazy, I won’t even begin to go into them all. That said, I just have a question.

I was hired as a real estate assistant/secretary. To me, that means things specifically associated with real estate like paperwork and phone calls, etc. To me, the pay I was told I’d get is for the work I was told about.

Well, as it happens, I also know a little bit about computers (such things as web design and email, etc.)…so of course, I quickly got sucked into doing those things, as well.

Now, I know that all jobs come with duties that weren’t explicitly stated … and new things pop up that need to be taken care of … and stuff along those lines. But it seems as time goes on, I’m becoming more and more responsible for anything computer- and IT-related. Just because I’m the one that knows the most—even if I have no clue, it becomes my job to figure it out/solve it.

So, where does it become the end of my initial job duties/being a peon and having to do everything the boss says…to getting paid more for doing stuff that really shouldn’t be my job or wasn’t in the original job description? Meaning that I was hired as a secretary, not a computer or IT person; I was hired with a secretary’s pay, not a computer or IT person’s pay. (I know I don’t deserve like $30k for computer/IT work, because that’s not my entire job—but some type of additional pay would be nice.)

I just think that she is lucky I know how to do this stuff, and I should see some sort of compensation for it. If I didn’t know how to do it (i.e. had my boss hired some yahoo who didn’t know how to do ANYTHING), she would have to hire someone else (at a much higher rate) to come do this stuff (as it is, she pays Tom $20/hour for networking stuff that I know nothing about).

So, do you think I should I get paid more for the IT work I do? Or should I just suck it up? Of course, I’m thinking about this now because I just had my two-year anniversary a week ago and haven’t heard ONE WORD about a raise. 😡

Wah! It’s too cold here!

I know I have a post like this whenever it gets cold, but man, I don’t think I could survive in Michigan anymore. This morning we had a deep frost and today I think it only got to 50, but it was COLD! Too damn cold if you ask me. Yes, I looked at Michigan’s temps today, and they were in the 20s…which is why I don’t think I could survive a winter there. This upcoming two weeks for Christmas is going to be a trial, that’s for sure—I’ve already dug out my parka and I have new gloves and I’m digging out the turtlenecks and sweatshirts! Last week it was in the 70s—I want that back!!

Not a good weekend for food.

We invited our friends, Tom and Karen, out for dinner Saturday night. We were going to Freddy’s, a local sports bar that has prime rib TO DIE FOR—Saturdays after 5pm only. Tom had previously had it there and said it was the best he’d ever eaten—plus the boys REALLY REALLY love steak—so they were really looking forward to it.

So we get there around 6:15 and when the guys ordered their steak, the waitress said “We’re actually out at the moment. It’s going to be about a half hour.” We asked how they could be out of the special barely an hour after it started, and she said they had had a run on it earlier. Okay… well, we had ordered an appetizer anyway, so we didn’t think a half hour was TOO long to wait—especially since it was going to be SOOOOO good. Both guys ordered it medium rare (this is important for the rest of the story). I then tried to order a sandwich and asked for texas toast instead of the regular bread. She said they were out. Oooookay—half their sandwiches are on texas toast, but whatever. So I said “Just give it to me on the regular bread then.” Oh, no, she says, they were ENTIRELY out of bread! After the issues with the steak, we just had to laugh at them being out of bread as well.

Fast forward AN HOUR, and we finally get our meals—the guy’s steaks were finally (apparently) done. Except that they were too done—meaning both of the steaks were medium to medium well, almost bordering on well done! Tom said it tasted horrible, probably the worst he’s had. Our friend Tom agreed that it was horrible. When the waitress came over to see how everything was, they both complained, said the steak was completely overdone and ruined, and they wanted two more. She said they had gotten the last ones! WHAT? 88| They were out when we got there at 6:15, and then an hour later they were out again? The waitress did say that a bunch of steaks had been sent back earlier because they were cooked wrong…which we’re guessing is why they ran out! The boys ate them anyway, since by that time we were all very hungry.

We just kept talking about it and sorta laughing about it, but the more I thought about it, the more pissed off I got—so I went to get a manager. And guess what? He wasn’t there! Ironically, he had gone to their sister restaurant/bar to get…bread! And no one on the premisis had any authority to take care of us—we had to wait until the manager got back! Thankfully, it was only a matter of minutes before he was back and over to our table. I told him how horrible the steaks were—aside from having to wait an hour, they were completely overcooked and a complete waste. And it was even worse because we had had the prime rib there before and it was absolutely fabulous. He apologized and basically said he would talk to the kitchen so it wouldn’t happen again—and that he hoped we’d give them another chance. He didn’t appear to be saying anything else, so I said “You WILL be taking care of the bill, right?” Oh, yes, of course he was. And of he went.

About five minutes later, the waitress brought our checks and said that the manager had taken….30% off our bills. Wait, excuse me, WHAT? For the steaks to be completely horrible, he only took 30% off our bill? I wasn’t too happy, but figured I just wanted to be done with it and get out of there. Until we saw that he didn’t take 30% off the entire bill, but rather just took 30% off the price of the steak! OH NO NO NO, that was NOT going to fly. And by that point, I was so pissed off that I was not going to accept anything less than a full comp for the two steaks.

Now, let me just say a quick word about our waitress… She was a cute little thing, and she felt HORRIBLE when she had to tell us the steaks would be late, then when we told her they were overcooked, then when we complained about the bill. One time, she looked like she was about to cry. She felt so bad about everything—but as a waitress, what can you do when the kitchen screws up? We made sure to tell her it was not her fault and we knew that—and that she was doing just fine. We also made sure to tell her that we’d be letting the owner know about the whole thing (she’s a fellow realtor and we used to work in the same office) and that she [the waitress] was great!

So when the poor waitress came back over and asked if we were ready with our bills, I said, “Unfortunately, no. I don’t mean to be a bitch about this, but he only took 30% off the steak. That is ridiculous! For two meals that were late in arriving, not cooked as ordered, and not able to be reordered…” She said she’d talk to the manager again. She was back in a few minutes with new bills, with the prime rib completely comped. Thank goodness.

So then we decided to go out for dessert, and we went to our little ice cream place up the street. Our friend, poor guy, ordered his favorite ice cream—and they were out! We had a good laugh about that.

So today Tom and I went out for lunch because we had a coupon for a “buy one get one free” sub at another sports bar. After taking probably 10 minutes to decide what we wanted (they have a huge sandwich menu), we ordered. And within a few minutes, the waitress was back to tell Tom that they didn’t even make his sandwich anymore and she wasn’t even sure why it was still on the menu! 88|

So, overall, not a good weekend for food!

Our intuition is nonexistent.

So this past month, let’s just say we both had a serious gut feeling that I was pregnant. It was a little early to take a pregnancy test—and I know I should have just left well enough alone—but my curiosity got the better of me (of course). So I took the test and it was negative. I decided it was no big deal—as I said, it was a little early to be taking a test (I wasn’t officially late) so maybe it was just too early.

And then I started my period around lunchtime. 🙁

So much for our intuition—apparently NEITHER of us has any!

Stymied at every turn!

So I had THE BEST idea for Christmas gifts for the parents this year…

EXCEPT I didn’t make my mind up until too late that I was going to get it for everyone, so I only had one.

And of course, I wanted the same exact thing…

EXCEPT I couldn’t find it anywhere locally for the same price [I got for the first one] so looked at other similar things (to make life easier)…

EXCEPT the things just weren’t what I wanted so they got returned.

So then I decided to just order what I wanted online…

EXCEPT I found that three stores had it and had to make a decision: Do I shop at the store where I get the absolute cheapest price (but comes with a mail-in rebate)? Or do I shop at the store with a bit higher price, but where I earn almost enough points for a $25 gift certificate? Or do I shop at the store with a middle-of-the-road price that makes for easy returns (just in case)?

So I decided to go with the $25 gift certificate offer…

EXCEPT shipping was 5-10 business days at that store…which, if it happens to be more than 10 days…we’re screwed (since we’ll be on our way to Michigan) and then no one gets presents.

EXCEPT I decided to have it shipped to my office, on the off chance it doesn’t make it in time, they can reship it to me.

I never thought buying two additional presents would be so hard! :>>

A new one this morning!

So as I’m sure you can imagine with four cats, we tend to get little surprises around the house—we think Bella has gastrointestinal problems that make her vomit for no reason and Fuzzy is renowned for hairballs. (I’m sure the other two have contributed at times, but Bella and Fuzzy are the most well-known culprits—i.e. we physically see them do it.) And of course it’s always a nice surprise when we find one of their deposits…hopefully not by stepping in it first! Sometimes Maggie gets to them before we do, which is gross—but we’ve grown to accept because 1) it’s just food and 2) it’s less for us to clean up. :>>

So after many years of this, I wouldn’t think much would surprise me. I mean, we’ve found piles on the kitchen table, under furniture, on the bed, under the bed, in their beds, on the desk, on the printer, on windowsills—in other words, pretty much everywhere.

But this morning was something entirely new and surprising.

The cats were all whining like crazy, which usually means their food bowl is empty. Except it wasn’t. So what was it? Oh my. Someone (my guess is Fuzzy since it was a hairball) had actually thrown up a hairball in the water dish! 88| Talk about gross—all the food pieces were bloated and had turned to mush, turning the water a disgusting, cloudy shade of tan. Blech!

As soon as I refilled it, everyone was happy!

Two and a half weeks!

So I was at work today and Jen, my co-worker, said something about a project we were working on—mentioning that she’d like to get it done before I leave on vacation…”in two and a half weeks!”

Wait.

What?

OH MY…it really is only two and a half weeks away! Now, while that’s extremely wonderful to think about, it’s also scary because I am not ready! I know it won’t take much to pack and whatnot, but the time has just flown and I can’t believe we’ll be in Michigan in three weeks!!

A lazy Sunday morning with Maggie!

Tom has duty today, so it was quiet in the house this morning…and I was actually able to sleep in until 8:30! After I let Maggie out, I grabbed her and crawled back into bed to watch some TV—we often let her cuddle with us on the weekends as she loooooves to nap under the covers. Needless to say we both were very comfy—and we stayed there until about 12:30!!

A Successful Santa Stalking!

An online board that I belong to did Secret Santas again this year, and I decided to participate since I actually have become move involved with the board since last Christmas. There was a whopping 115 people participating—including quite a few I didn’t really know—so chances were I’d have to do some “stalking” to do to find [what I hoped] was the perfect gift. (Now, by stalking, I mean researching past posts that person had written, seeing what their interests were, and deciding on a gift.) And on a board that is heavily participated in with subjects of all varieties, this could have been a very lengthy process indeed.

So everyone was excited and counting down the days until the names were drawn! I got someone I didn’t really know, but someone who I had at least heard of and posted semi-frequently! And the stalking began! And as luck would have it, I found a great hint within the first 10 minutes of searching! I kept stalking, however, in the hopes I would find something better, but it never happened—and I thought “Why waste any more time on this when I already have a great gift idea?!”

What was it, you ask? What was the perfect gift? Well, it was pre-Thanksgiving time and there had been a few posts about casseroles—actually, I had started one asking something about the typical green bean casserole…and then due to that thread, someone else started a thread about casseroles in general…to which my person had replied, simply:

Yum! Not only do I like eating them, I like making them.

And from that simple comment, it was off to Amazon! As I tried to decide which of the numerous casserole cookbooks to purchase, it turned out my additional stalking had come in handy—from his comments on Riedel wine glasses, new granite countertops, and a recent visit to a trendy and expensive restaurant, I gathered he had a sense of refinement about him…so I went with the Cook’s Illustrated cookbook Cover & Bake (which I then proceeded to put on my own wishlist!) and a 4-qt Pyrex casserole dish!!

We’re not supposed to open our gifts until December 22, but apparently he has about as much willpower as I do sometimes, and he already opened them and emailed me to thank me—and tell me I did an excellent job stalking!!

Phew!

Now I just have to wait to receive my gift….and wonder what my Secret Santa is learning about me from stalking!

I lost my lilacs!

The bad news? I lost my beautiful lilac shower curtain in the master bath.

What, you ask, do I mean by lost? Well, we had both grown weary of the shower curtain sticking to us in the shower. I mean, the shower is a little on the small side…so you can barely move around in there without the curtain attaching itself to you.

So we had been looking at shower doors. And let me tell you what a nightmare THAT was—we have a somewhat odd-sized shower, so trying to find something in-stock (read: not special order = $$$) that was the size, color, and glass type we wanted was next to impossible. Most of the sliders were for typical tub/shower combos and started at like 46″ wide and 65″ tall—too wide and too short for what we had—and most of the pivot doors were too small and the wrong color (probably 98% of the ones in stock were silver and we didn’t want that unless it was our only option).

So last night were were at Lowes for the second time (having also made a trip to Home Depot) and were not having any luck. And just about the time our frustration level was at 100% (read: ready to give up and walk out of the store), we happened to see one standing there that wasn’t on their in-stock brochure!! And it was the size (43″x70″), color (nickel), and glass type (anything but clear) we wanted! What luck! It was a slider (as opposed to a pivot, which was our first choice), but at that point, we weren’t complaining!

And I looooooooove having a handyman hubby, who said he could install it (saving us $120) and then installed it with ease…although he did admit that the caulking was the hardest part and something he needs more practice on! 🙂

New Slider Shower Door

So, I lost my lilacs…but gained a cool new shower door!!

So, how was YOUR Black Friday?

Everything I wanted was available online, so I set the alarm for 5:55am and was at the computer by 6am placing orders! It sucked to get up this early—especially when Tom initially said he’d go to town to pick up anything I wanted…then renegged when I said we could do the shopping online (stinker!).

The only minor snafu is that I decided to add another DVD to one order at the last minute and assumed that since I chose “pick up” for the first DVD, it would automatically select “pick up” for the second DVD—which it didn’t, so I had to pay an extra $1.79 for delivery. 🙁 That’s what I get for trying to shop when I’m barely awake! (It’s still a decent deal, but I should have had both shipped or both picked up, just for ease.) I just kick myself for not paying attention!

So, how was YOUR Black Friday?

Happy Thanksgiving!

There are waaaaay too many good smells coming from our kitchen today—and we’re not even having Thanksgiving at our house!

I decided to make another loaf of Spaghetti Bread this morning, so we were smelling italian seasoning, garlic, and parmesean…

Then I made a new cornbread recipe (Tomatillo Cheddar Cornbread) for our breakfast—delish!—so we were smelling spicy-ish mexican.

Then, while both of those things were going, I toasted some pecans and coconut for the Sweet Potato casserole I’m making for dinner at our neighbor’s this afternoon!

I love cooking and baking!!!!!

Houston?

I hate to say it, but we’re sort of maybe thinking of moving to…Houston. Where did this come from? Well, from what we’ve been hearing and researching, the job market in Michigan leaves something to be desired.

So we’ve been watching House Hunters on HGTV…and recently we saw an episode where they were house hunting in Houston, Texas.

Oh. My. God.

The amount of house you can get for the money is AMAZING. Take a look at one house we love. Can you believe it’s only $279,000? 88|

Of course, everything is a pipe dream right now, and you never know what the future holds, but man it’s tempting. Now we just have to find jobs!!!

Afternoon Snack

I was a little hungry this late afternoon, so went scrounging in our little kitchen and found some bags of microwave popcorn. The writing on the package caught my eye:

REDUCED COOKING TIME!

Well, no shit, since the bag is about 1/3 the size of a regular bag. :crazy:

Who I Am

I decided to add some more pictures of me over there in the right column. I figured since it said “Who I Am” I might as well put some older pictures in there as well. And, since it may or may not change in the future, I thought I would put a single snapshot here for posterity.

Who I Am snapshot

Row 1: GHS 1991, CMU 1994, Fall 1998
Row 2: May 2001, May 2004, November 2004
Row 3: October 2005, October 2005, March 2006
Row 4: April 2006, June 2006, November 2006

It’s going to be a loooooong day.

Sorry, I have to bitch about my job/office again today. 😡

I am so sick of the arguments about the air/heat. Yesterday it was a gorgeous 70° outside but they had to turn the A/C on “because it was so stuffy in here.” Okay, neither of you had been in the office all day and everyone who WAS in the office had NO problem with the temp, so what the hell? Again, we got told “THE A/C ALWAYS STAYS ON! We can’t have our clients walking into a furnace.” Okay, what-ever. I personally don’t think 74° is a furnace, but what do I know—I’m only a peon who HAS to sit in the office all day. So I guess we can all freeze all day ON THE OFF CHANCE we have clients come in the office (and if we DID have clients that were not just running in and out, we’d turn it down!). And they complain when we prop the door open because all we have is a cement block and they don’t like how that looks. They’ve said a few times we can get something pretty to prop it open, but it never happens.

And this morning? There was a smell in the office, so their solution was to turn the A/C on to get rid of it. Huh? How about opening both doors and getting a cross breeze? GRRRRRRRRRR. (Did I mention it’s only 60° out?) So my boss asks if I’m cold and I say it’s a little chilly now that the air is on…thinking she might say “Oh, well then let’s turn it off” — HA! HAHA! — no, she tells me to open my blinds and let the sun in so I warm up!! OH MY GOD SHE DID NOT JUST SAY THAT!!  😯  I’ve only told them about five times that I cannot open the blinds in the morning because the bright sun shines right in my eyes and gives me a headache.

And on top of all this, my desk/chair situation is still bad and I am in pain. I am supposed to be getting a new/different desk but of course that hasn’t happened yet. (Long story, one of our agents is bringing in her own desk, which means I can get hers, but it has to be trimmed first to fit in my space and no one is making any moves to make that happen even though they were GUNG HO about telling me it was going to happen.) For the past few days, I’ve had my chair up higher so that my knees weren’t bent awkwardly and didn’t hurt, but then my wrist hurts because it’s too high for the mouse. So today I finally moved my seat down so my wrist didn’t hurt [as much]…but my knees are now scrunched and it feels like my ass is dragging on the ground. AND MY WRIST STILL HURTS!

And I have a headache, even with the blinds shut.

It’s going to be a looooooooong day.

What a cool surprise!

So I got the mail tonight and there was a small box from my mom. I knew just from the size and shape that it was a “check box” but I knew she wouldn’t be sending me checks! :)) So, imagine my complete and total surprise to open it and find…….pumpkin seeds!! 😀 I had mentioned when they were here visiting that I loved pumpkin seeds but never made them—but that I loved hers! She remembered…and sent me some!

FRANKS, MOM!!! 😉

The Punisher!

Tonight was a laugh riot—we went to Raleigh with our neighbors/friends, Rob and Cindy, to see Carlos Mencia in his current tour, The Punisher. He’s not a comedian everyone likes or “gets,” so we were really (REALLY!) surprised when we mentioned him in passing and they said they loved them and would love to go to the show with us!!

We went early to hit the mall and Cheesecake Factory for an early dinner. Other than a few snafus with dinner (our waitress must have been new) and directions getting to the venue (we only ended up having to walk about four blocks and were technically five minutes late but the show hadn’t started yet), the evening was an absolute BLAST! I have not laughed so hard in…well, I honestly can’t remember when. By the end of the evening, my stomach hurt from laughing so much and so hard! Now, THAT’S a good night!

Not quite as crazy as last time…

We had decided a few weeks ago that we wanted to have another party—this time, because a bunch of guys on our street are all deploying around the same time and we wanted to get everyone together before they all left (and before the holiday season occupied everyone’s schedules). We decided to have deep-fried turkey and make it into a potluck.

Of course, we were totally paranoid about throwing the party. I mean, we knew we had had a successful party in the past, but we are always scared that no one will show up and/or people will not have a good time.

Of course, we had nothing to worry about…we ended up with (I think) 22 adults and 14 kids! It didn’t get nearly as crazy as it did before, but everyone had a smashing time. And the turkey was a HUUUUUGE hit—I was surprised at how many people were trying it for the first time!

Oh, and Maggie? She was in pure doggie heaven—all those kids running around and wanting to play with her! Every time I looked around, someone was carrying her or chasing her or playing with her. One time, the kids were playing tag and were scattered, running all over—and she didn’t even know which way to run!! Towards the end of the evening, you could tell she was getting tired, so we put her to bed a little early and she slept straight through the night and didn’t even BUDGE in the morning!!

Free Hugs Campaign

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vr3x_RRJdd4

Yuu have to see this to believe it—I get the chills every time I watch it. He was also on a recent Oprah…

Juan Mann’s free hug campaign started two years ago when Juan went back to his hometown in Australia to find that his friends and family had moved away. “I was the only person I knew in my own hometown,” he says. “So I wanted to get out there and do something that spread a little bit of cheer and cheered me up, and this was the first thing that really came to mind.”

The first time he stood in public with his “Free Hugs” sign, Juan says it took an agonizing 15 minutes to receive his first hug. “This one lady came up and gave me a hug and it was really, really worth it,” Juan says. From that first hug a campaign was born! Thanks to a video on the website YouTube, Juan’s movement is spreading worldwide—he is even organizing a global hug day!

More information on the Free Hugs Campaign available on Wikipedia.

Make sure to click directly on the arrow to watch the video without leaving this page.

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