Paint, paint, and more paint.

We planned to repaint the orange living room and office to a more neutral color, so we did that. Well, Tom and my mom mostly did it. 🙂

Then since the garage was such a nightmare, we decided to paint that as well—and lucked out with a $50 5-gallon bucket of a perfect color. I also let Tom get a paint sprayer to do it. It looks awesome.

Then we were just going to retouch the sunroom (Owen’s new playroom) and ended up spackling and repainting all the walls since the five year old paint was still good enough!

The A/C works, but…

You won’t believe this.

After all the bitching about the A/C that didn’t work in our Michigan rental…our A/C in NC is wonky, too—albeit in the opposite direction. I have it set on 78 and it’s COLD. Too cold.

So now we get to call the heating and air people to come take a look and recalibrate the thermostat. Not a tenant’s fault, but more unexpected spending.

Community pool–yay(s) and boo(s).

I really appreciate the fact that we live close to the country club pool (yay!) but I really don’t appreciate that they wouldn’t prorate the cost (boo!) so I had to pay $375 to use the pool through Labor Day.

But they do have a kiddie pool (yay!) but the water in both that pool and the main pool is too warm (boo!).

And it’s cool that they have adult only hours (yay!) but overall the hours kinda suck (boo!)—11a-6p Tuesday through Saturday, 1p-6p Sunday, and 6p-8p adults only those days. There is no lifeguard and no locks on the fence that I can see…so I’m not quite sure why they have those limited hours.

Birdie Disaster

Everywhere we turn, there’s more damage to the house—both major and minor. We’re wondering just how a property manager completely misses major gouges in walls? Or HOLES in doors? Or really badly patched holes in doors?

The lawn was never taken care of so we’ll probably have to start from scratch—and even the sodded front yard is abysmal. All our trees and bushes are dead and you can’t even see the gorgeous landscaping (that we did brand new right before we left) through all the weeds and overgrown grass. :'( >:XX

And what things the property manager did find and tell us about? Fixed shoddily. For example, the holes dug in the lawn by dogs? Filled with wood chips. WOOD CHIPS! And not really even filled since we can still see the holes! And the molding eaten by the dogs? Oh, it was replaced, but they used the wrong nails, left hammer marks, and didn’t paint it. A wall was repainted back to the color we had, but you can see the old color through it.

More tiles were cracked.

The carpet had runs.

Pretty much every room needs to be spackled to fill random holes/gouges and repainted.

They broke a refrigerator door shelf and fixed it with duct tape. Really? A new shelf is $25, which should have come out of a deposit. But the property manager missed it.

And I had to clean up meat juice from three layers of the fridge. WHO DOESN’T CLEAN UP A SPILL LIKE THAT?! (Granted, that was likely from the last short-term tenants and not the last long-term tenants, but still.)

The guest bath wall looks like they literally spewed water on the walls and it dripped down, completely staining the paint.

This cabinet (and the floor) was pristine when we left. Then tenants worked on cars in the garage and spray painted on the garage floor. REALLY? Now it’s a disgusting mess. And that’s not even considering the state of the walls. >:XX

The carpet is more trashed (dirty) in the two months our last tenants were here than the three years we were here. But seeing as how the property manger apparently didn’t do shit, we’re thinking maybe the carpet didn’t get cleaned like she claimed it did, either.

They also left a huge self-built wooden bar in the storage area upstairs that should have been removed—but it was left there for us to take care of. And it wasn’t just “oh move it out of the room”—it was built IN the room so it was too big to just move, so it had to be dismantled. If you looked in the storage area you couldn’t miss it. Ridiculous.

Now, to be fair, we don’t know for 100% sure that ALL the damage was done by the long-term tenants, but it’s most likely. For example, neighbors told us they saw them working on cars in the driveway (completely against the neighborhood rules) and there’s grease all over the garage and workbench—so it sounds like they took the illegal activity inside and that mess is theirs. And some of the other problems we were told about were from them (and were fixed badly). So overall, they were really crappy tenants who didn’t have a good reputation with treating the house well so I’m really sure most (if not all) of the issues were from them. And with the other people only being here 2.5 months, it’s not likely they did much of anything (though I do know it’s possible).

It just makes us sick because 1) it’s a decent chunk of money to fix everything that should have been taken out of their deposits, 2) we were obviously getting shitty service, and 3) we never would have rented to them in the first place had we not been so desperate (eminent bankruptcy having to pay for two mortgages) because they are the ones that “forgot” they had a third dog until after we had negotiated all pet terms and they were in the office signing the lease. So they were shady from the start.

Poor little guy.

Poor little guy. His whole world has changed (disappeared) during the past three days and the outbursts and tantrums have reached an epic level (i.e. more in the past two days than his entire life). Once we realized HE realized things were missing (like when he asked for “more couch”) we started trying to say “chair gone—bye bye chair” which seemed to help. But he still had outbursts like this on and off all day (this one was just this morning after he ASKED to go out and play in the water—we took him out, but then he didn’t want to be out there).

The good thing is that for the most part, the outbursts are over within a few minutes at the most and then he calms down or goes back to being happy and playing with his cars or watching movies.

And there were really fun times, too, like when he discovered that we made him a tunnel!! And when we went and played/hid in the upstairs closet for a good 20 minutes…opening and closing the doors, saying “spooooky” and hiding from daddy.

I can’t wait until this is over and we can get back into his schedule. Everything was off yesterday due to the movers being understaffed, so instead of being done loading the truck by 5, they were here until 9:30. And since they were running behind, I postponed the carpet cleaner—so instead of him being done by 8, he was done at 10 (and he was cleaning the upstairs at Owen’s bedtime, so Owen didn’t go to bed until 9:30). But Owen was a trouper and lasted pretty well until about 9:15 when he started asking for “more nap.” So sad and cute at the same time…

Thirteen hours. THIRTEEN.

Yeah, these packers/movers were NOT up to par. :down:

Part of the problem was there was only three of them.
Part of the problem was they hadn’t finished packing the first day.
Part of the problem was one was a young/inexperienced kid.
Part of the problem was they were running WAY behind.
Part of the problem was they were in over their heads.

They packed things we specifically told them not to pack and left things we wanted them to pack.

I just felt completely discombobulated and it didn’t feel like it was running smoothly AT ALL.

And it was taking forever. FOR. EVER.

When they got here in the morning, they thought they’d be done by 5.

Ha.

Haha.

HAHAHAHAHAHA.

They were here 13 hours. THIRTEEN HOURS. ONE THREE. THIRTEEN!! 😮 They arrived at 8:30a and pulled out at 9:30p. >:XX

I had to keep postponing the carpet cleaners so they weren’t all tripping over one another but eventually had to get the guy in there so Owen could go to bed before it got too late. As it was, we got him to bed at 9:30 (an hour late) and the poor little guy was so tired that he asked for “more nap.” 🙁

The worst part is that we thought they’d be out of here by 4 or 5 and we’d have all night to finish packing our stuff and get organized and do typical moving out stuff…which obviously didn’t happen.

So far, NOT the stellar move that we’re used to.

The packers.

Our morning started with a loud shattering noise at 3:30am. Upon investigating, Tom found a shattered light fixture on the floor. Apparently the downstairs hallway light got left on and it got too hot (?) and decided to bust the glass lamp. :## Tom got up around 4 and I tried to fall asleep again but got up about 4:30 because I was thinking of all the stuff we still had to do to get ready for the packers.

We started to get worried about 8:15 when no one had showed up—and hadn’t heard from them. We figured it would be our luck that lines were crossed and they were scheduled for another day. But Tom got a call about 8:45 that they were almost there. About 10 minutes later, our neighbor kid comes over and asks if we’re expecting a big truck and we say we might be (usually on packing day, it’s just the cab and not the whole truck) and he says they turned the wrong way coming in to the subdivision.

So Tom called, and come to find out, they were just going around the block because they couldn’t navigate the turn due to construction vehicles in the way. Okay, fine. So we look down the street and yep, there’s the semi—THE FULL SEMI—at the corner. And there was NO WAY it was getting down our street. Every other house has their driveway ripped up so all those cars are parked on the street—including the house at the corner—so he couldn’t make that turn, either. Well, we hadn’t expected there to be any construction or road blockages, so we hadn’t thought about warning THE ENTIRE STREET that we had a semi coming. And even if we had thought about it, we wouldn’t have expected the semi on the first day when all they do is pack.

After about 15 minutes they got the cars moved and finally made it to our house. The guy said he’d had easier times getting to places in downtown Chicago. 😐 And this is when I noticed that there were only three guys. THREE. Past packing days? We’ve had at least four and sometimes five or six people. So with the late arrival and route problems—and now knowing we had fewer people than necessary—we were worried they wouldn’t be done on time. (Turns out, the guy said that the scheduler had WAY overestimated the past SEVEN assignments whereas they only needed three guys instead of the five they requested. So he just assumed she had messed this one up as well, so he only brought three guys. BIG MISTAKE. BIG.)

So they started. One guy in the kitchen, one guy in the pantry downstairs, and one guy in the living room. We were floating around trying to organize stuff, watch Owen, and answer their questions. The guy in the kitchen was there almost the entire day. The young kid in the basement got caught on his cell phone a few times and we’re pretty sure he got his ass chewed. They were making progress, but it wasn’t as fast as we were used to.

We bought pizza for lunch and they were really appreciative. I wanted to pack Owen’s toys while he was napping, so they got boxes ready for me and I did six boxes—more than I’ve ever packed on a move before—and part of me was ticked because someone should have been doing it instead of me, but part of me was fine because it wasn’t that hard and I didn’t have anything else to do at the moment.

As it was nearing 5:00, we knew they weren’t going to be done. They hadn’t finished the living room (including any of the electronics), the upstairs linen closet, and some other random stuff. Turns out they didn’t have enough boxes to finish anyway (in addition to some boxes accidentally being left off the truck, they didn’t have enough boxes in general). They said they’d be here at 8 tomorrow to finish packing and then start loading. They think they’ll be done by 2. Ha. HA HA. Hahahahahaha. I’ll believe it when I see it. Again, previously, we’ve had up to 4-5 people loading and it took them until 4. There’s no way three people can finish by 2 when they still have packing to do first.

All that said, these guys were as good as any other packers we’ve had. They’re quick—more than once we thought “Oh, let’s keep that out” and it was already packed. If you don’t explicitly tell them NOT to pack something, it’s gone. Now, I know this is how they do it—they just pack anything and everything in their path—but the guy in the kitchen hadn’t touched the drying mat or anything on it (and it had been there ALL day), so I just figured he knew I was still using it and was going to leave it alone. So at dinner, I went to get some things off it…and they were gone. Not the whole mat and all the stuff on it, but random things—a pizza cutter and (this is the strangest thing) the straw part of a sippy cup (and none of the rest of the pieces). So, two things off the mat? HUH? WHAT?!

So now it’s 7 and Tom and I are exhausted…but we have more packing to do (they left a few boxes) and we have to organize what stuff we elected not to pack to see if it will fit in the Uhaul because we can’t suddenly get a bigger Uhaul if we run out of room.

Isn’t this fun?

Craigslist…AAAARRRGGGGHHHH!

I had a brand new item listed (complete with all the info Amazon has on it plus pictures) and some women emailed me about it, and scheduled her husband to pick it up today. There was no price negotiation at all, so I was thrilled. THRILLED!

So fast forward about five days to today, an hour before he’s supposed to pick it up, and he emails me and asks for more info, how much it sells for new, is the item new, what are the specs, etc.

Um, what?

Haven’t you already looked at the listing? And how is it MY responsibility to tell you how much the item sells for new? So I sent him the link and said I really didn’t have any more info, and was he still coming to pick it up?

His next email was asking if I’d take half what I was asking.

>:XX

NO.

NO NO NO.

Not 30 minutes before you’re supposed to pick the damn thing up and NO because you could have negotiated a week before and NO because apparently you’re an idiot and couldn’t even read the >:XX listing.

Ironically, had he/she/they negotiated the price at the beginning, I would have been fine with it. And it IS Craigslist so I should just expect morons as a matter of course, but I just. cannot. stand. shit like that.

So then he emails back “Well if you change your mind, email my wife.” Yeah, no. I told him we’re moving in three days so I’ll just sell it on the other end.

Yeah, I could have taken the money and been done with it, but I refuse to deal with morons if I can help it.

Seriously?

Our landlords.

Ugh.

We gave them two times/days that we could do the checkout, saying that we were planning on leaving the state on [Day 3]. Of course, it took them a week to get back to us…and of course, they can’t do it either of those two days, but said they can do it Day 3 at 6pm (the day we wanted to leave) or Day 4 (TWO days after we planned to leave).

SERIOUSLY? :##

So we scheduled it for Day 3 and are keeping our fingers crossed that it goes well, because we cannot postpone it any farther.

I need to stay out of the kitchen.

I should stay out of the kitchen for awhile. Within the past few days, I have:

  • grated my thumb (while grating cheese for mac and cheese).
  • stabbed myself in the palm (by simply holding and walking with a knife).
  • accidentally dumped a cup of syrup on my pancakes.
  • grabbed a just-out-of-the-oven pan bare-handed (after I had successfully taken it out of the oven with potholders).

First cereal with a spoon!

Since Owen is getting pretty good using his spoon with his yogurt, we thought we’d try cereal in milk. It took a few minutes of telling him NO when he tried to eat with his fingers and showing him how to scoop with the spoon, but he eventually got it. Of course, he still tries to use his fingers some times…but then the next moment he’ll pick up fallen cereal and put it back in the bowl (instead of in his mouth)! But overall he did really well for his first try!

I said please!

Owen really wanted to go outside before dinner, but we were only minutes away so we said no. So then he started saying please, which is just terribly cute and hard to resist, but we just didn’t have time. Besides, now that he knows please, I’m trying to teach him that just because he says please doesn’t mean he will get what he’s asking for.

But he kept getting more and more adamant—verging on whining and tears with every please please plase—when I heard what I swear was “I said please!” in a very anguished little voice.

Well, how could you not be swayed by that? Is your heart made of steel? Have you no soul?

So we went outside for a few minutes.

And he was happy.

And we were happy.

Moving dates–finally!

The packers will be here Monday, June 27. The movers will be here Tuesday, June 28.

The carpet cleaners will be here Tuesday evening. We hope to do the checkout with the landlords (so we can see exactly what they see and be here to fight anything they might come up with—we don’t trust them to do it without us) Tuesday night as well.

If all goes well, our two-car caravan will leave sometime on Wednesday the 29th after we get the U-Haul packed. (We are still waiting to see what my mom’s schedule is, as she wants to come down to North Carolina to help watch Owen while our stuff is delivered, we unpack, and paint some rooms in the house. She’ll get there one way or another, we’re just waiting on final details. So, we MAY leave on Thursday the 30th.)

Whenever we leave, we’ll end up in Jacksonville the following day. I would love to do the drive in one day, but it’s just not going to happen. It was a 14-hour day when I did it by myself, stopping for quick bathroom breaks and take-out food—stuff not possible traveling with a U-Haul, a toddler, a dog, and two cats. Unfortunately, that also means we get to deal with a toddler, a dog, and two cats in a hotel room.

WISH US LUCK!

The words are coming faster!

Owen is getting better at repeating things we say and picking up words a lot faster these days. I am sure I’m still missing some, but here’s most of the new words…he’s up to 261!

Bach => If we say Johann Sebastian…he fills in Bach! Thanks, Little Einsteins.
Bassoon
Crown
Dance
Dolphin
Dragon
Fan
Heavy
Listen
Monkey
Popcorn
Princess
Puzzle
Pyramid
Schubert => a la Franz Schubert from Little Einsteins
Snail
Stomp
Tunnel
Upside down
Whale